We often have all of these thoughts, ideas and images when expecting our first child. We might imagine how it will feel to be a ‘family’, who baby might take after, how our life may be changed. Often we look to our friends, siblings, even social media icons and celebs to get a sense of what life may look like AB (after baby). Some of us, without ill meaning… might even pass judgment towards the above loved ones on all manner of things – their parenting styles, how they feed/s

"A tree is known by it's fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness sows love" - Saint Basil Last week, I was sent 3 gifts in the post. One beautiful bunch of flowers from my 'baby' sister and 2 gift boxes full of thoughtful items. One friend had put in a face pack, my favourite tea and chocolates in a stylish box which I always appreciate. Another had put in the biscuits we always like to eat togeth